Parents should be given to children of 10 experience

1. happy families experiencingfamily is the child's Harbour, once the family is wavering, children feeling will become unstable, restless, easy to get angry, even neurotic. We should create a harmonious and warm family atmosphere, so that children grow up in a loving and caring environment, let children experience what is a happy family, and understand the responsibilities of parents. 2. independent way of experiencingchild just beginning to try to do things independent, will inevitably encounter difficulties, we should not intervene, more is not done on his behalf, he should be allowed to learn lessons from your failures. Decision for him only at important moments, but when the children insisted that when their own solutions, it may be appropriate to encourage. 3. participation in the work experiencetraining children the best way is to assign to his work. We should first consider the child's age, abilities, interests and personalities, to help her with the housework, but also not forcing. Children play responsibilities while also feel much attention will become wiser. 4. the experience of handling different viewswhen you disagree with the children, avoid forced to convince him, this will only make him to resist, even if the subject, it will only flow to the surface. 5. after the failure of taste of successwhen you teach children to exercise, select easy game activity, so that he will not fail, frustration will make him lose interest; let him feel success after the failure, which would make him lift the interest or inspired him to do his best in all things truth. 6.出外活动的经历孩子喜欢四处走动。 Father usually busy with work, should be with children during the games, sports, or to libraries, museums and other places, to informative, let your child feel your love. Or take advantage of the holidays with children in the countryside, with a breath of fresh air, stretching their muscles, looking towards. 7. experiences of emotion revealsall his temper, so do not be afraid to vent in front of children. Sad without avoiding the child, when angry his reasons, allows children to learn more about our emotions, and method of model vent emotions. Children see their parents had words of reconciliation after a, appreciate the resolve conflicts and the continuing strength of love, will learn interpersonal skills; see parents grief, learn how to deal with grief emotion; children are sad, next to the parents in comfort, let him know that sharing grief can make close relationships further. 8. the quarreling parents decent experiencequarreling couples to have principles, each should have a specific topic, do not turn the Jiuzhang, clarify their requirements. Although the propriety of the quarrel was important learning opportunities for children on social networking, but some argue in front of the children should be avoided: money matters, the child would only upset; scold relatives is not, will destroy his close relationships with family members; of child rearing, he will be at a loss. 9. parents ' past experienceswhen when it encounters a problem and talk to our children, it may be derived from past experiences, frustrations, failures, suffering lessons, Frank told the children each. Do not have to fear will undermine the image of you in the minds of children, on the contrary, it will make children more aware of you, would make his inspiration, and your values into him. 10. the experience of life and death ofchildren in their growth period experienced numerous attempts, challenge, difficulty, frustration and failure, only overcome these challenges, to develop into independent strong man. If the raising of small animals die, children will feel sad, you can take the opportunity to make him understand the pain of losing loved ones, so that he knows the importance of cherishing life. In daily life, instil the correct Outlook on life to him, that he understood the beauty of life. Weekday brought him in touch with nature, made him appreciate the wonders of life. （据《太原广播电视报》）